Thursday, September 6, 2007

A Piece of Something

While I was walking, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don't have. Then I realized that the happiest moment of all people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it. Moreover, its also true that we don't know we've been missing until it arrives.

In the gate way of my heart, I put a sign that says "NO TRESSPASSING" but love came laughing and said "I ENTER EVERYWHERE". Love knows no reason, love knows no lies, and love defies all reason. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find that you still care for that person. Love is supposed to be a wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy and strength can also hurt you in the end.

When you love, you must not expect something in return; if you do, you're not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept pain. Don't go for looks, it can deceive you; don't go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never try to impress someone to make her/him fall in love with you because when you do you'll have to keep that standard for the rest of your life.

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, you'll find out then or in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let her/him go. Maybe GOD wants us to meet a few wrong person, we should know to be grateful for the gift. We often don't see that person and that we don't always get what we want, but in the end of it all, we realize that what we wanted wasn't meant for us after all. Everything happens for a reason. When you fall down because you didn't get what you wanted, just sit, fight and be happy because God's thinking of something better for you.

It hurts to love someone and not being loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. It's always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose it in the end than rather never finding love at all because we're too afraid to face its challenges. The greatest regrets in your life and our lives are the risks we did not take. If you are thinking something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once.

GOD never closes the door without opening a window. He always gives us something better when he takes something away. Heartbreaks will last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go; challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but learn from them. In a relationship god knows when you're hurting or crying. There you are given a chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and for yourself. When you grow, you don't become a better person, because you experience suffering. We have no right to ask when sorrow comes "Why this happened to me" unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.

The reason god puts tears in your eyes is because he wants to put rainbow in your heart.

2 comments:

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Unknown said...

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